random.fit.of.laughter
its.just.my.life.Yet again, sorry.
So, as some of you may know, I am sitting for some major exams this year, this means my time if often taken up by all the study and homework possible, so my blogs been denied, I log onto my computer, it comes up, I go, maybe tomorrow. So today is tomorrow, and I am back, to share my thoughts with you, whoever you are.
Life is busy, you start to notice the change from childhood thoughts of, I am so bored there is nothing to do, to the adult thoughts of, I never run out of things to do and wish I had a day with nothing to do. There is always something to be done, more study, cleaning, seeing a mate. The list never runs out, but seems to grow larger and larger with age.
Speaking of things to do, I got to go make lunch, catch you later.
brb
Pet hate # 679
When people forget to say be right back, or just simply disappear mid conversation, or when they don’t reply to an email or text you know they have received. You don’t even get a ‘i’ll reply when I get free time’ you get nothing. Nothing at all.
It bugs me, conversational skill are lacking in my networks, pick up your game people.
we all know them
you know those people, they claim to be a really good friend of yours, but only action what they say when it works for them? when they are not busy, or when they have enough free time to fit you in. True friendship isn’t defined by the time of day, its constant- yes I know there are priorities in life, like finishing an assignment when its due in an hour, but friendships should not be turned on and off like light switches just so its convenient to one person in the relationship.
I think the worlds view of friendship has altered quite greatly, with the use of facebook and mobile phones, a catch up no longer is over coffee its over technology, how often are our conversations with bestfriends via the dodgy facebook chat, or via text? that isn’t a conversation, you could not see their body language, hear their tone or gage any of the other important parts of proper conversation.
Have we become afraid to have heart to hearts in person? I think to some degree yes. We find it easier to talk about things when we are hidden behind a computer or phone, where our actual emotions are not seen except for the often false emoticon used to portray who we are and how we are acting.
I am not pointing the finger at you, I am guilty of this aswell, but I am changing it, if I cant have the conversation face to face, i’ll at least pick up the phone and give them a call like we used to before facebook became such a massive thing.
How many people you have as ‘friends’ on facebook, would you actually hang out with and have a good time with? It shouldn’t be called ‘friends’ it should be ‘people i dont really know, but hey’, due to this, i’m cutting back on my facebook pals, to those who I actually have an interest in pursuing friendship with, cause all these sort of know people don’t need to see my status on any given day, or my photos as they are things we should share with our real friends and family.
Go out and talk to a real person, you might be surprised by the conversation you have.
help
we noticed you crying, we just didn’t know what 2 say to help you
to all of those who think people don’t notice, they do. People care, but sometimes they just can’t tell you as easily as you wish they could
lies
are probably one thing that annoys me more than others, when a good friend lies to you about something important. Its not ok, when they should be able to be honest with you.
but this is ok
on another more laughable notes;
i found out last night some octopuses have their balls in their head!
and whats the plural for roof…? not sure, rooves?
diet
how often as young females so we hear this word? for me, daily. I go to an all girls school, and as summer approaches, diet is used a lot in conversation. Two of my bestfriends told me they have 2 lose some weight, i looked at them, and tey are practically just bones already and they want to lose more? when will it be good enough? when will they look in a mirror and think they are beautiful just the way they are. And that they don’t need to lose an extra 10 kg to get the guy of their dreams, cause that guy would see through appearances and look at their hearts.
girls- you are all beautiful, without the diets.
guys- remind girls they are pretty, tell them they don’t need to diet, because they do it for you, to impress you, to get the smile of approval from you, to feel comfortable around you
jerks- dont ever tell one of my bestfriends again she is tubby. its cruel, and to be honest you were 3 times the size of her
sleep
evil holidays, getting me into bad routines which are rudely broken by school, sleeping my day away then wasting my night on the internet.
why is it when i sleep for 14 hours i wake up more tired than ever?
i wish i could store up all of the sleep i get in holidays to use over the school term when i run low on sleep. now theres a good idea.
to my friends
love.
love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. (Mark 12:28-30)
family <3
they may drive you up the wall, they may make you want to move out, they might make you laugh so hard you could pee your pants, they may be all you’ve got, they may be demanding. But, they are who, we as individuals will always belong to. We are a piece of it, there is no way to change that, your family, is your family, stuck with them for life. And as much as any teenagers (including myself) complains about family. They might be all you’ve got. Dont take them for granted.
